kami lah wanita, ibu, nenek, kakak, isteri dan girlfriend anda juga wanita kan?

Aku rasa marah sekejap. Aku ingat kalau seorang wanita dah berada di tangga yang paling atas dalam hidup, penindasan, bias, pandangan sebelah mata, stereotyping dan semua yang seangkatan dengannya tidak menjadi suatu permasalahan lagi tapi malang sungguh bagi kaum aku, wanita, kami sentiasa dan setiap masa ditindas, dipandang serong dan yang paling aku benci, kenapa setiap pergerakan kami diperhatikan dan dilabel sebagai perempuan keji, perempuan murahan, perempuan tak tahu malu dan sebagainya apabila ada antara kami yang merokok, keluar dengan kawan-kawan lelaki atau even keluar malam?

Aku bukan sexist, aku bukan feminist and yes for sure aku bukan seorang yang chauvinist. Aku minor in counseling and semua orang tahu aku tidak judgmental. Tak pernah terlintas pun aku nak jadi bias terhadap manusia yang ada kat muka bumi ini. Tapi tipu la kalau aku cakap aku tak mengata orang-orang yang dem, faking annoying yang suka membuat aku hangin tapi no worries so far, aku selalu berlaku baik terhadap setiap gelintir manusia yang berbuat baik terhadap aku.

Tapi main point aku disini ialah, aku tak puas hati apabila ada bebelan siyal kedengaran dari suara-suara sumbang oleh masyarakat (society yang terdiri dari yang tua, muda tak kira lah, asalkan berkelompok dan terdiri dari sebuah kumpulan yang menentang tentang idealism yang baru yang cuba diketengahkan yang mana juga selalu berfikiran terlampau orthodox) tentang wanita secara general.

Pernah tak ada sape2 dengan secara tiba-tiba mengatakan pada anda, "weh, die isap rokok dow! patu malam-malam jek kua dgn laki ni laki tu. ari tuh aku npk die kua dgn laki ni, hari ni aku npk die kua dgn laki lain plak! ko rase die virgin lagi tak?"

apakah relevannya atau kaitan seorang perempuan itu merokok, keluar dengan kawan-kawan lelaki dengan virginity and her dem faking dignity? pernahkah dia melukakan hati kau atau menjejaskan kedudukan kau dalam sosial stratifikasi masyarakat kat dunia ni?

Okay, berbalik pada statement awal aku tadi, bila wanita itu dah berada di dalam status quo yang tertinggi, for example, The Queen. Ingat takde penindasan ke? Pernah terfikir why the hell Marie Antoinette was betrothed and married to King Louis XVI of France by the age of 14? Well, the mother, Maria Theresa yang hanya memikirkan the best for Austria tak pernah lak terfikir yang her 14 year old daughter was okay with the arranged-marriage without thinking how that would actually cause Antoine jadik so stress with life!

What about the Boleyn girls? What about Queen Elizabeth herself? What about Jane Seymour? And of course, apa hal Queen Katherine senang-senang boleh diceraikan by King Henry VIII himself just because he was rejected and seduced by Anne Boleyn?

Ye aku tau life isn't fair tapi it can be fair and in just if the society at large tak being that judgmental and kepoci kan? lagi bagus kalau takde lelaki yang sepatutnya menghargai wanita dan mengangkat kedudukan wanita tapi treat them like shit dengan sewenang-wenangnya, sesuka hati datang dan pergi.

Guys, you have to remember, korang dah la nearly pupus thus, treating us like shit and at such low treatment, not helping la weh!

Enough said I guess.

Comments

  1. wah emonye...
    ye, aku stuju gak. ngape ada je yg tak kene ngn kita? pakai baju apa pun, ada je depa nak komen. pakai baju yg damn lose pun, depa nk mngata.

    ada skali aku terdengar, laki ni cakap ape tau kat sorang wanita tu,

    "badan kecik, 'barang' besar"

    wadefak??

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  2. well said. some people are just losers themselves that they decide to fuck other ppl up.

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  3. well, men are pigs but i'm not blaming them solely what about those psychotic biotch yang suka provoke or trigger their pig-ness kan? same jek la. Freud was right all along kan ili? people are bad.

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  4. "penindasan, bias, pandangan sebelah mata, stereotyping dan semua yang seangkatan dengannya tidak menjadi suatu permasalahan"

    Nothing new, people,humanity always judge before they try to approach and understand, that's human nature. Something that remarkably transcends Race, Gender, Age, Religion, Creed. It just goes to show how messed up this world is, when the things that ultimately unite us in a single belief and principle are ones such as this.

    All Human Hate All Human; in essence all of humanity is 1 big misanthropic entity bent on its own destruction.

    This is where common public opinion starts to contradict itself. It is said that individuality is what separates us from the beasts, that our capacity to think for ourselves and ultimately determine our own fates is the truest of gifts bestowed upon 'Man' (Speaking of the race, not the gender of course). It should not surprise us that a few if not the many will deviate from the path others have chosen, to choose another way, for it is their right, nay, OUR right. But still the call to conformity is always present. ALL has felt this. There is no need for me to reiterate it here.

    The Main Point :
    Everyone has their own opinions, and point of views, it is not our right nor they, to discriminate, either way. Relevancy is not an issue.

    As for the royals, that my friend is in an entire sector of discussion that involves to many factors for this comment to properly address.

    and in defense of man, Ive seen many a good man waste away, let it not be said that there was none...

    PS:
    Either way you want to rephrase it :

    Humanity is inherently pure, wrecked asunder by the corruption wrought about by others and the ultimate damnation of the soul

    OR

    Humanity is inherently disgusting and evil, it is by the kindness of others that nurture us towards purity of mind and ultimate salvation of the soul.

    ~Misanthropic Stalker~

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  5. uh huh, u haf a stalker.

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  6. I was under the impression she was being stalked in her BLOG as well as in real life.
    or did i get the facts wrong?

    ~Misanthropic Stalker~

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  7. yes both in reality and here how's that for an ordinary girl like me huh?

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  8. Impressive, very impressive indeed.

    Then again, i have on good reason, found you are quite...'Special'.
    Your uncanny ability to perceptively know what others are thinking is very remarkable.

    You, he friends would attest that she is a valuable friend right? A veritable Hot "Soup" for the soul.

    ~Misanthropic Stalker~

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