The only thing that is too fucked up that would ever happened to a girl is to be only a "friend" or the "girl-I-know" and not "the one".
It's always, "I think I like this girl I know...but yes, just like her. Nothing more than that." Or... "Hey, I like you but you know, it's been a decade/55 years of time that I don't date so I've been so used to myself of not going out with anyone or to report or to say nice things to or bla bla bla....." But the main thing is that you guys are just being jackasses and bastards about commitment and relationships. Screw that.
So, don't fucking give me reasons and excuses. Best, if you just stay the fuck away.
Infatuations my ass!